Leah Remini is mourning the loss of her dear friend, Trish, who had been a nanny for Remini’s daughter, Sofia, since she was a baby. Trish appeared on Remini’s reality show on TLC titled “It’s All Relative.”
Trish died at the end of April 2022 following a long battle with cancer.
“Last week, our beloved @trish_the_nanny passed away after a nearly decade-long, brave battle with cancer. Many of you got to know Trish through our show on TLC. Trish was a big part of our lives and continued to be even after our girl grew up,” Remini wrote in a lengthy Instagram caption.
Here’s what you need to know:
Remini Shared Memories of Trish on Instagram
Remini shared a video filled with clips from Trish’s time spent with Sofia and with Remini’s family over the years.
“In the last month, I feel so blessed to have spent quality time with her, and I got to tell her how much she meant to my family and me. I’m sharing the letter I wrote to Trish a few weeks ago while she was still with us. I wanted her to know how much she meant to me and how grateful I am for how she protected and loved Sofia,” Remini wrote.
She went on to talk about Trish’s personality, and her overall “love for life.” Remini said that Trish had a “twisted sense of humor” that she simply adored.
“I will miss Trish in ways I can’t describe in a caption. To her son KC, stepsons, her brothers, sisters-in-law, extended family, and friends. You know we are with you. Trish, I know you are bossing everyone around and making everyone laugh up there. We are going to miss you tremendously,” Remini concluded.
In addition, Remini shared a heartfelt note that she wrote Trish to thank her for the years of love that she gave to Sofia — and to the whole family. In the note, Remini credits Trish for helping her get away from Scientology and for ensuring that Sofia was raised away from the “cult.”
“You made me laugh everyday. You made me feel like a normal mother. You made me feel like a good mother. You gave me praise for wanting my daughter to grow up outside of this cult mentality. And you gave me validation when I doubted myself as a new mom,” Remini wrote.
Trish Was Diagnosed With Breast Cancer After a Mammogram
Trish found out that she had breast cancer after going for a mammogram. Like a lot of women, Trish had put off the appointment, but ended up going for a scan after Remini convinced her to. This was featured on Remini’s reality show, “It’s All Relative,” which aired on TLC.
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“Without Leah, I probably wouldn’t have gone to get a mammogram. Life gets in the way. So who knows where I would be today if she hadn’t forced me to go get that,” Trish said on the show, according to The Wrap.
In July 2021, Trish gave an update on her treatment.
“Most of you know I have been fighting cancer …the last 6 months has been a little rough …medicine failing …brain surgery …but I’m doing great!! I came home to find a box on my porch, from a charity @twistedpinkorg …it’s a charity that’s sends boxes to people fighting cancer . It’s was filled with masks, soap, makeup, hand soap and much more!!! Thank you @twistedpinkorg from a very grateful cancer patient,” she captioned a photo of herself.
On April 6, 2022, Trish shared an Instagram photo visiting with some family members.
“Nothing like a little fam time !!!!! To fill the soul with love my brother and wife and niece are here from London…… boy this goodbye is gonna hurt,” she wrote.
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Tom is one of the church’s biggest supporters, and has been under scrutiny for many years due to his affiliation with Scientology—often labeled a cult—and their strict rules and beliefs.
“Thank you to my friend @claireheadley for your courage. You have continued to speak out despite the non-stop attacks from Scientology,” she wrote. “Tom Cruise knows exactly what goes on in Scientology. Don’t let the movie star charm fool you.”
Claire’s post reads: “Glad all you Top Gun fans are enjoying the new movie. Personally, recent posts about this movie only serve to remind me of Tom Cruise and his crimes against humanity.”
Battling a Controversial Religion
Leah was raised in the church as a child and revealed what she experienced in a series called Leah Remini: Scientology And The Aftermath, which ran from 2016-2019. Claire was featured in the show, which highlighted “shocking stories of abuse, heartbreak and harassment experienced by those who have left the church and spoken publicly about their experiences,” according to a statement by A&E network
Now, more people like Claire are coming forward about the horrors they allegedly experienced. “Tom Cruise promotes a dangerous cult that destroyed my family too, the same cult that almost cost me my marriage and my life,” she said. “The same cult that forced me to have two abortions, and which I fled from in 2005 with the clothes on my back and $200 in my pocket, to which they tracked me down, across state lines, to attempt to prevent my escape.”
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Claire, who refers to herself as a “cult survivor” on her Twitter page, says she refuses to watch his movies. “Trust me, Tom Cruise knows exactly who he is supporting and the abuse the organization perpetrates. I worked with him while I was there.”
Tom became a Scientologist in 1986 after being converted by his first wife Mimi Rogers, now 67. The superstar was married to Aussie actress Nicole Kidman, 54, and most recently to Katie Holmes, 43. Tom and Katie divorced in 2012 after six years of marriage and share one daughter, Suri Cruise, age 16. A large part of the controversy with Scientology is that they are reportedly not allowed to have relations with family members who are not also members, though they deny this despite reports from former members.
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Katie and Suri are reportedly no longer a part of Tom’s life. Tom adopted his other two kids, Connor, 26, and Isabella, 29, with Kidman.
The “Church,” who is known for their bizarre and blatantly hostile publicity statements, attempts to discredit Leah Remini, but instead, only further sounds the alarm on their alleged abusive operations.
Leah’s Family Life
Leah has sadly had many years of suffering, but thankfully is coming out on top as a survivor. The Brooklyn-born King of Queens star has not been afraid and will no longer stay silent about the trauma she says she has endured. It is unclear whether her exit from Scientology has anything to do with her late sister, but interestingly enough, it is widely known that Scientologists are against traditional medicine.
The multiple eye-opening experiences have inspired Leah to try to make a difference and save others from the same type of suffering.
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Leah never commented publicly on Stephanie’s death until 2016, in honor of National Siblings Day. Leah posted a tribute to her late sister on Instagram. “A little throw back action and love to all of my sisters,” Leah wrote alongside a photo of she and her siblings, adding “#RIPStephanie.”
While little is known about Leah and Stephanie’s relationship, it’s possible that she was forbidden to associate with her sister (who was not a Scientologist) at the time, and perhaps feels guilty about how things ended for her.
Leah has an older sister Nicole, a brother named Michael, and three half-sisters still living.
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Leah’s biological parents, George Remini and Vicki Marshal, divorced in 1977. Her mother remarried to a man named Dennis Farrara, who was a member of the Church of Scientology, thus converting the rest of the family.
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Leah’s estranged father George died in 2019, though his health details remain unclear. Leah found out about his death a month after the fact.
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Leah’s parents divorced in 1977 and her mother subsequently married Dennis Farrara, a man who was already a member of the Church of Scientology. He is the one who converted Vicki and her children to Scientology.
There are evidently many layers to this story, but what is important is that people work through those feelings, heal, and forgive themselves. The Remini family was largely affected by Scientology, along with cancer, and Leah’s activism on exposing the church’s alleged wrongdoings is likely a part of her healing in all areas.
Finding Peace With Loved Ones During A Cancer Battle
The ability to make peace with a loved one before they pass away can bring great comfort.
Camila Legaspi was a teenager when she lost her mother to breast cancer, and while she did not have a strained relationship similar to that of Adele and her father, she did find that those final months with her mother brought her a great sense of peace.
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“I mean, I look at that year, and I feel like my relationship with my mom just improved and developed so much, even though there was this unspoken disease that was going on and that obviously overshadowed a lot of things,” Legaspi tells SurvivorNet.
“There was something about those moments with my mom and now knowing that she tried really hard to maintain this happiness and this love in our household makes the small things we did so powerful.”
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Legaspi recalls one day in particular that she spent with her mother towards the end of her battle.
“I remember specifically something we always used to do would be walk the reservoir in Central Park,” says Legaspi.
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“And it seems like such a simple thing to walk in the park with your mom, but knowing that I was walking in the park with my mom while she was struggling with this massive, massive life sentence, in some ways, but still making time to enjoy these small, simple moments with her daughter.”
She then adds: “There was kind of a peace that existed between us that only really appeared that year.”
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